I have to tell you that I’m a little annoyed about the response I get regarding homeschooling. People will not talk to you about the current political climate but everyone has an opinion about homeschooling. People that I see maybe once a year have an opinion about homeschooling. Well I have an idea, stop having an opinion! If we are in a conversation together and you ask me if my son is going to the local elementary school, and I happen so say no I’m homeschooling, don’t immediately become the voice of reason. Don’t! It shows a lack of knowledge on your part, and that leads to ignorance, which leads to me shutting the conversation down.
Would you like to know what to say? Say something like, “wow, you would do a great job at that” or “have you decided on the curriculum?” there are millions of questions you could ask that will not have me feeling defeated.
If you really feel the need to have an opinion than do some research and have actual facts to back up your allegations about homeschooling. Please leave your feelings and your great love of the public school system to yourself. It comes down to tact, people, and I’m trying to educate you in having some tact when you are faced with a similar situation. Chances are good that considering the current political climate I will not be alone in taking my children out of the public school system.
If you are reading this and the person I speak of has been you at one time, then from this point on, please know that moms and dads who decide to home-school are not trying to win a popularity contest. This is a hard decision for most, but an honest one that should be respected at the very least.
Thank you.